RELATIONSHIP

To be very clear that the most loving situation is one where each person is an equal.
And yet, the rules if you would for relationships on this planet have basically been; one person will dominate the relationship, and the other person will comply.
And certainly, in the relationships of men and women it has been assumed that the woman who has been held in lesser regard would be the one that would submit.
But in any relationship there is always a balance of masculine and feminine energy.
And it is that the assignment of the weakness to the feminine energy is something that the "old order" is meeting in a very impactive way.
For in many ways woman is stronger , the Goddess energy is more powerful , but it isn't about who is the strongest, who is the weakest. It is about who is willing to be the most in love with themselves.
So that the situation can truly flow, for no one can love another more than than they love themselves.
And yet the world has looked out and said " I must find someone outside of me, to prove that I deserve to be loved".
And that in these times is becoming powerfully disappointing, because the willingness to accept the love, the willingness to allow the situation to be of service; the delight, the joy, the energy of sharing, all of those things that are so important in the loving relationship, simply can not be accepted if the entity is not in love with themselves.
You can not make someone love themselves. No one can love in a relationship enough for both people.
And if that is a belief system, than the relationship becomes a tug of war of one attempting to pull the other across the line.
Come into love!
And the resistant one, holding back in fear, many times because of the very laws that we have expressed; that love is a weakness, there would be a vulnerability and a fear to be taken advantage of.
A loving relationship considers that there are two involved.
And the patriarchal society had for a long time believed that "if I decide this should be a relationship, then it must. And if I decide this is how the relationship must be, then it must".
All of those old systems are breaking down, all of those old ways are coming undone.
And so to really consider feel within yourself  , what is the point? And what is the purpose?.
For need will build a wall, that will prevent One from being where One desires to be with the situation.
A point of acceptance.
Accepts another for who they truly are.